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Visitation

Riewerts Memorial Home
Friday February 18th, 2022
4:00pm - 8:00pm

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Funeral Mass

St. John the Evangelist R.C. Church
Saturday February 19th, 2022
11:00am

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Elaine M. Mischler

Elaine M. Mischler (nee Carbone), 84, of Bergenfield passed away peacefully on February 15, 2022. In her final moments, she was holding the hands of her "double trouble" twins, Jeffrey Mischler and Lynn Ciccia, who brought light into her world. Elaine was the devoted and beloved wife of the late Walter H. Mischler. Their marriage of 61 years was spent in bliss, while traveling and enjoying the sunshine. Elaine was the proud Grammy to her two grandchildren Paul Jr. and Allisa Ciccia. She was the older sister of Joyce Carbone and the loving mother-in-law to Paul Ciccia Sr. Elaine has left her loved ones with joy-filled memories. She is now in the loving embrace of the Lord, alongside Walter. Visiting at Riewerts Memorial Home 187 S. Washington Avenue, Bergenfield will be on Friday from 4-8 PM. A funeral Mass will be held on Saturday, February 19, 2022 at 11 AM at Saint John the Evangelist Church, 29 N Washington Avenue, Bergenfield. Cremation will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to your choice of charity or Church.


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A candle was lit in memory of Elaine Mischler

Schneider family Feb 21 2022 3:02 PM

Dear Jeffery, Lynn and family,
Very sorry to hear your moms passing. Although I never met her I'm sure she was a wonderful person. Both of you and your family are in my prayers. Take care.

Jack Minnella Feb 18 2022 1:42 PM

Lynn Ciccia and Jeffrey Mischler, my deepest sympathy on the loss of your mom…She was fun loving, loved life and always the belle of the ball! She missed your dad sooo much this past year, and is now back together with him for eternity… May she rest in peace now with the love of her life…πŸ’”πŸ™πŸΌπŸ’—πŸ˜­..so sorry. Love Cathy Sweeney

Cathy Sweeney Feb 17 2022 8:24 PM

You would be hard pressed to encounter a lady as gracious, loving, giving, wise, comical and beautiful as Elaine. I have known her since 1995 when I was blessed to become friends with her daughter Lynn. Our children went to the same Catholic grammar school and she and her equally amazing husband Walter immediately became honorary grandparents to all the children.

Walter and Elaine were married for 61 years and their love and devotion to one another was palpable. If you saw one of them you saw both. They were fixtures at Mass and their faith was inspiring. There was never a school or Church function that they did not assist with, always with smiles and kind words for everyone. The other loves of their lives were Jeff, Lynn's twin, Paul, Lynn's husband, Paul Jr and Allisa, their grandchildren.

When Walter entered eternity a part of Elaine's light was extinguished. Having lost my own husband six years ago I tried to be the "big sister" and offer suggestions and extra helpings of love.

Elaine will be sorely missed by all whom loved her. The only comfort is knowing that this couple is reunited in heaven and is watching over all of us.

I will miss your advice, your wit, your laughter and style.
God bless you Elaine and Walter. I love you both dearly.

Lori Fernandez Feb 17 2022 7:09 PM

I had the pleasure of having Elaine in my life for almost a year, she became a member at our social club last year, and i have enjoyed her everyday since then. I know that we made her day a great one, but she made my day a funnier, lively day, every time she stepped in the door. I will always cherish the time I had with her, and I feel so grateful that she entered my life. Never for you Elaine, May you rest with your one and only love.

rossana fonticoba Feb 17 2022 9:50 AM

Elaine and Walter were a treasured part of our community, and will never be forgotten. We have so many fond memories of the times we've shared together. On behalf of the New Milford Senior Center, we send our deepest sympathy and love.

Lynn Sullivan, Director, New Milford Senior Center Feb 17 2022 9:00 AM